In grad school we did this really fun assignment where we made documentary videos about the contents in each others purses/bags. The stuff we carry really does say so much about our lives, so I thought I'd let you have a look into mine. Also, if you're planning a trip to Southern India, this could be a useful list of must haves.
1. Toilet paper. I never ever ever leave the house without a roll. Southern Indians generally just have buckets of water next to their toilets, and I don't know about you, but water doesn't generally dry anything off for me. I was shocked to see that even in private homes people don't use toilet paper. Twice so far I've been stuck with nothing but the bucket + faucet, and let me just say, it was unpretty. And swampy. (Note: Chandigarh had lots of toilet paper, this is in regards to Southern India, namely Tamil Nadu)
2. Sunglasses. *So important*. The men here (Chennai) are not used to seeing Western dressed women and will burn holes through your clothing with their stares. A good pair of shades not only blocks the sun from your eyes, but also gives you a little privacy from lecherous looks.
3. Hand sanitizer. The rumors are true. India is dirty. We're talking Middle Ages, black plague style dirty. You're going to want to wash your hands, a lot.
4. Lip gloss. Self-explanatory.
5. Bobby pins, hair ties, clips. If you have longish hair (or really just hair at all), you're not going to want it touching you. My hair goes way up on top of my head where it chills out and doesn't stick to my neck. #worstfeelingever
6. Wallet. Duh.
7. Camera. For all the crazy things you are 100% going to see.
8. Phone. Duh.
9. Travel note book + a pen. I bought this one from an antique store for my brother and then liked it too much and never gave it to him (sorry D). Chances are you're going to pass something you'll want to remember or meet someone you'll want to see again.
10. A handkerchief (or any kind of fabric/cloth). When I first arrived the smell of Chennai was so bad I would gag, literally, in the middle of the street on an hourly basis. We'd be walking to dinner, gag. I'd be in a rickshaw, gag. On my way to the gym, gag. And by gag I mean, heave so badly I was 100% sure that at any moment I was going to throw up all over myself. I wish you could experience the smell, just to understand how good your life is right now. The smell isn't just like a little whiff of something unseemly. It's like a hot wave of putrid rotting diapers/fish mixed with urine, cow, and Indian armpit. In other words, if breathing is important to you, you're going to need something to cover your nose and mouth with.
11. Sunscreen. Nobody likes cancer.
12. A water bottle. Sometimes you'll wonder if you're sweating or melting? And since you're a woman, you'll need to be covered from collar bone to ankle and will sweat lots. It's a delicate balance though, because drinking too much can lead to needing to pee in a public restroom before you get home (never a good idea).
13. A pack of gum. Chances are you'll be really nauseous anytime you use transportation of any kind. Rickshaws are open to the elements so you're breathing in lots of exhaust and the above mentioned smells, plus it's really bumpy and the driving defies description. Gum can help you not vom.
What's in your purse? :)
1. Toilet paper. I never ever ever leave the house without a roll. Southern Indians generally just have buckets of water next to their toilets, and I don't know about you, but water doesn't generally dry anything off for me. I was shocked to see that even in private homes people don't use toilet paper. Twice so far I've been stuck with nothing but the bucket + faucet, and let me just say, it was unpretty. And swampy. (Note: Chandigarh had lots of toilet paper, this is in regards to Southern India, namely Tamil Nadu)
2. Sunglasses. *So important*. The men here (Chennai) are not used to seeing Western dressed women and will burn holes through your clothing with their stares. A good pair of shades not only blocks the sun from your eyes, but also gives you a little privacy from lecherous looks.
3. Hand sanitizer. The rumors are true. India is dirty. We're talking Middle Ages, black plague style dirty. You're going to want to wash your hands, a lot.
4. Lip gloss. Self-explanatory.
5. Bobby pins, hair ties, clips. If you have longish hair (or really just hair at all), you're not going to want it touching you. My hair goes way up on top of my head where it chills out and doesn't stick to my neck. #worstfeelingever
6. Wallet. Duh.
7. Camera. For all the crazy things you are 100% going to see.
8. Phone. Duh.
9. Travel note book + a pen. I bought this one from an antique store for my brother and then liked it too much and never gave it to him (sorry D). Chances are you're going to pass something you'll want to remember or meet someone you'll want to see again.
10. A handkerchief (or any kind of fabric/cloth). When I first arrived the smell of Chennai was so bad I would gag, literally, in the middle of the street on an hourly basis. We'd be walking to dinner, gag. I'd be in a rickshaw, gag. On my way to the gym, gag. And by gag I mean, heave so badly I was 100% sure that at any moment I was going to throw up all over myself. I wish you could experience the smell, just to understand how good your life is right now. The smell isn't just like a little whiff of something unseemly. It's like a hot wave of putrid rotting diapers/fish mixed with urine, cow, and Indian armpit. In other words, if breathing is important to you, you're going to need something to cover your nose and mouth with.
11. Sunscreen. Nobody likes cancer.
12. A water bottle. Sometimes you'll wonder if you're sweating or melting? And since you're a woman, you'll need to be covered from collar bone to ankle and will sweat lots. It's a delicate balance though, because drinking too much can lead to needing to pee in a public restroom before you get home (never a good idea).
13. A pack of gum. Chances are you'll be really nauseous anytime you use transportation of any kind. Rickshaws are open to the elements so you're breathing in lots of exhaust and the above mentioned smells, plus it's really bumpy and the driving defies description. Gum can help you not vom.
What's in your purse? :)

I wish I had the nerve to travel. I can't even handle the overnight trip that is only 1 1/2 hours away that we are taking with the kids on Sunday (where we will need to stay in a hotel and somehow keep the baby from shrieking all night). After reading this post- though very helpful and insightful, I think I am better to stay at home and dream of travelling.
ReplyDeleteBtw, I have carried a roll of toilet paper in my purse from time to time; but, only because we ran out of Kleenex. We were cleaning out the back of our car and my husband found a roll of TP there. I was about to let him toss it when I had this wash of anxiety, imagining being stranded somewhere and needing TP. But, now thinking about it, if we were stranded, TP would probably be the least of our worries:-)
So, I am guessing if I plan a trip to India, Chennai is not going to be your first recommendation? At least you have figured out how to leave the house prepared. xoxo
ReplyDeleteI would love to visit India. Your contents are definitely essentials for traveling. I just finished traveling around Europe, and most of my stuff is the same except for blotting paper (works wonders in heat), and a compact mirror. As for the toilets, have you been to Italy? For some reason some of the toilets are similar, and on the floor!
ReplyDeleteDidn't know that about the tp. I pretty much carry similar things--a camera is a must for me too.
ReplyDeleteI love your India posts... they always fascinate me / make me giggle.
ReplyDeleteThis made me laugh out loud. I can totally imagine so much of this.
ReplyDeleteQuestion about the smell- do MOST people, including Indians, cover their noses from the smell, or just newbies?
First I want to say that your blog brings joy and happiness to me. You have such a lovely presence on the web. And second, haha, I love your post. I had to carry toilet paper with me in Morocco because where I stayed had just the Turkish style toilets with a bucket of water. I was so confused about the water and I, umh, still am. I'm in Germany right now so in my purse is my camera, passport, chocolate, chapstick, wallet, a little mirror, dental floss (yes, really!) and my rail pass. Auf Wiedersehen.
ReplyDeleteoh my that sounds like a survival kit, lol! love this post! i have all the same things but not #1, 10, 4, and I always have some mail either going out or coming in from the post office, my keys with pepper spray...
ReplyDeleteI think my purse is boring :)
ReplyDelete@Hannah, everyone covers their noses!! the smell even gets to the natives.
ReplyDeletehaha, another one that's had me in fits of giggles. I tend to throw a very light scarf over my head when I step out in India - does the job of a cap and stops the top of your head catching fire and also gives you a bit of that much needed privacy. You havent been to Delhi yet if you think its bad in Tamil Nadu lol - they don't just look but try to touch you and stroke your hair. Eeeeeek! :o Hope you have a brilliant weekend! x
ReplyDeleteLove this post and your description of everything :)
ReplyDeleteOh I remember the days of traveling with loo paper, when I was back in London, backpacked through Middle East for five months and it was my best friend.
ReplyDeleteAs a kid, I remember traveling to parts of Asia without toilet paper. I actually broke down and cried once at the outdoor market, just thinking about a room with just a hole and hose!
ReplyDeleteI gagged while reading your description of India. Sounds like India smells like carrot diaper. BLEGH.
ReplyDeletekathleen's purse:
1) baby wipes
2) 3 tubes of lip gloss. two of them were found open, not a pretty picture
3) diapers (not for me obvi)
4) a half opened banana (oh, you wanna cry in target?? here have a banana)
5)sand from the beach (mostly stuck to my two open tubes of lip gloss)
6)my wallet that does not contain any of my cards
7) debit card, credit card, drivers license in random pockets NOT in my wallet
8) the board book version of Good Night Moon (and WHY not?)
9) a small zip lock bag of raisins and slivered almonds... with dirt in it from the beach
10) a top to a sippy cup
11)sun glasses
I absolutely love peeking into someone else's bag! I drag my computer, charger, various cables and headphones to work, plus my wallet, future phone, sunglasses in black and brown (so I'll always match), my current read, two notebooks for work and personal inspirations, lip balms, cuticle salve and tampons. The girl with tampons always has friends.
ReplyDeleteMy purse looks something like.
ReplyDelete1. pens
2. chap-stick
3. notebook
4. mints
5. osp! forget my phone
6. weren't my keys supposed to be here?
7. I forget it again?!
Yeah I'm pretty scatter brained but if I loose it at home I don't loose it on the road ;P
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Sarah
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Let me just tell you this then--- DO. NOT. GET. PREGGERS. you will be beyond sick under those conditions. Your blog is quickly becoming an absolute fave. i love your writing.
ReplyDelete@Kathleen, I want to tweet every item in your list.
ReplyDelete@Lena, BAHAHA! the girl with tampons always has friends. words of wisdom my dear.
ReplyDelete@jennifer, pregnancy in india = disaster. i would actually die from vom overload.
ReplyDelete@kathleen, what is carrot diaper?
ReplyDeleteAddition; your fav God's pic. Hopefully one of those 33 million deities to save us from traffic accidents.
ReplyDeleteI usually wear a small purse and only carry lip gloss, small wallet, keys, and my phone (very boring). Great traveling tips-I always bring a travel size roll of toilet paper when I go abroad, many places don't have toilet paper or charge you for it when you reach the restroom!
ReplyDeleteYour bag is full of all the great essentials. I just read that you now live in India! Wow what an amazing experience...so yes TP in your bag is a must..funny how we take things like that forgranted in the US. Love your blog!
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@lindsay, such a good point. im realizing all the things ive always taken for granted. ie, garbage pickup. here they literally just burn the dumpsters.
ReplyDeleteoh wow! really makes me stop and appreciate what I have. Some may call me spoiled, but there is nothing worse than being stranded on the bathroom bowl!
ReplyDeletehaha i love that you take toilet paper - it's very important!
ReplyDeletealso loving the sunnies :)
oh gosh, if i let me husband read this one we'll never get to india, ha
ReplyDeleteNice post, I didnt' know any of those things about India, so thanks so much for the advices
ReplyDeleteHope you're having a nice weekend
♥Marley
I did one of these my junior year of high school and then a couple of months ago. The comparisons were really funny.
ReplyDeleteHand sanitizer & toilet paper - indeed must haves for travelling!!!
ReplyDeleteI usually have soooo much randomness in my purse: receipts, sanitizer, lip balm, hand lotion, nail clipper... soooo much stuff! Haha.
lol love this post! and i can't believe there isn't any toilet paper...that sounds a little crazy to me!
ReplyDeletebesides the essentials like my wallet, keys and phone, i always carry chapstick and hand sanitizer. can't leave home without it!
All I carry is my lipgloss, cell, and I.D. Hehe, I guess I'm more practical! I can't have things crowded and obscured! I hate purses.
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Oh my, that sounds rough. I never like to be caught without TP. Usually I just keep a pack of tissues though, a roll seems like it would take up a lot of purse real estate.
ReplyDeleteLove your handkerchief, it's so pretty. At least you look pretty while you keep from gagging.
Chic on the Cheap
I am SO happy you commented on my blog because I am loving following your adventures in India! I am someone who has such a strong sense of smell, I think I would probably have let the gag-inducing scents get to me... just your description alone makes me want to vomit. The worst we have here is manure, after they fertilize the fields. Today I will enjoy the fresh air and send some your way.
ReplyDelete@zarna, thanks lady :) there's no going wrong with snakeskin shades.
ReplyDeletei love reading about what everyone carries around in their purses! this post was very eye opening about what to carry in a foreign country.
ReplyDeleteI'm gagging just reading that. I suppose I'd be super skinny if I lived there. An accidental bulimic!
ReplyDeleteLove your purse pic and India tips!
ReplyDeleteYep, when we did our little family backpacking through South East Asia I wasn't that in love with no-toilet-paper situation. But apparently paper clogs the not-very-effective sewer system?
I definitely came back to Aus with a new-found appreciation for plumbing!
@nikki, LOL. storyofmylife.
ReplyDeletei loved seeing what's in your bag!! thanks for sharing ~ i like the toilet paper roll!!
ReplyDeletexx ~ ks
Haha, very true(especially the toilet paper...)! I visited Trivandrum (down south) and my bag was filled with the same things
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